Adoption After Infertility

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Many of the issues of adoptive parents are the same, regardless of whether or not infertility played a part in their family-building choices. Typically, all will have to address:

  • Feelings that you're not the "real" parent of a child
  • Talking with children and others about the adoption
  • Worries about known or unknown biological, genetic influences
  • Relations with birth families

There are some added struggles for folks whose choice of adoption came about after battling infertility:

  • Will the fable come true that we'll conceive once we've adopted, and if so, will it be a good thing?
  • Are we viewing adoption as a "second best" alternative to having a biological child?
  • Have we sufficiently dealt with our grief over losing our dream of a biological child?

We hope to provide a place of learning, growth, connection, and support to those who are or will be raising "chosen" children.
© Tracy Morris provides community and resources regarding fertility issues, infertility diagnosis, causes, and costs, for those trying to conceive. When getting pregnant isn't as easy as anticipated, this is the place to find information and support.

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